When you are in the divorce process, you will have to make many big decisions that will effect the rest of your life. All decisions that must be made while you are in emotional upheaval. This article links good-decision making to your anticipation of the future that decision will bring. It also points out that most of the time, it doesn’t matter what you decide, but what efforts come after that decision that determine its success. Choosing an attorney who you feel comfortable with, who brings not only legal knowledge but compassion and patience will be helpful in making these decisions.